“This is too much.” The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On star Dave confides in Vanessa about Dating Week

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On Season 3
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In Netflix's latest episode of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On, emotions run high as contestants navigate Dating Week. The episode reaches its emotional peak when Dave, struggling to watch his partner Vanessa explore new connections, breaks down during a heart-to-heart conversation. He confesses:

"Maybe I can't be here. This is too much,"

Capturing the raw vulnerability of watching someone you love potentially fall for someone else. The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On's premise is simple yet emotionally complex. The show consists of couples on the brink of marriage, where one partner has issued an ultimatum, must date other people in order to test their relationships.

For Dave, whose partner Vanessa was the one who issued the ultimatum, this experimental dating format proves to be an overwhelming emotional challenge.

What happened with Dave and Vanessa in Episode 2 of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On

The episode begins with Dave's partner, Vanessa, on a date with Nick, Sandy's original partner. Both ultimatum-givers, they quickly bond over their shared experiences. Vanessa opens up, saying,

"I'm already learning, like, things that I want or need more of."

She reveals her passion for bodybuilding, explaining,

"Last year I did a bodybuilding competition. Dave wasn't a huge fan, but I did really like it. I would do it again, but I've agreed not to."

The pair connect over their "weird" and "quirky" sides, with Vanessa telling Nick, "You deserve someone who's weird and cool and loves you for the weirdness that you have."

Meanwhile, in this episode of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On, Dave finds solace in conversations with Chanel, Micah's original partner. Their connection seems built more on shared emotional struggles than romantic chemistry. "Sometimes I worry about our exes. How they're feeling emotionally," Dave confides in her, adding,

"Maybe I don't wanna be here anymore."

The situation escalates during a cocktail party where a flirting chain reaction begins. As Dave and Chanel interact, Vanessa responds by flirting with Nick. The pairs separate for private conversations, with Dave telling Chanel,

"It's tough to see her (with someone else)."

Dave talks to Vanessa about how he’s been feeling

The evening's emotional climax arrives when Dave pulls Vanessa aside for a conversation. "I had a really tough week," he admits, breaking down in tears. Vanessa's response, however, offers little comfort:

"It's definitely helping me realize what I was okay with not having with you."

Despite Dave's heartfelt admission in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On, "I love our life together," Vanessa remains focused on her journey, expressing excitement for the trial marriage ahead. When she declares,

"I feel really happy with the person that I'm going to choose,"

Dave's curt "Oh, really? Okay" reveals his devastation.

The conversation continues to unravel as Vanessa adds, "Well, I think I'm being shown a lot of qualities that I really like." Dave's pain is evident in his response: "By this other person? That I don't have."

Vanessa attempts to set boundaries, telling him,

"I'm truly seeing this as like you and I are broken up, and you need to lead with trust in this process. You need to not worry about me."

In a twist of events, despite his emotional struggles, Dave ultimately chooses Chanel as his trial marriage partner when the time comes to pick. As the episode ends, viewers are left waiting to discover who Vanessa will choose for her trial marriage, while Dave's vulnerable confession,

"Maybe I can't be here. This is too much,"

Continues to echo, highlighting the emotional toll of this unique dating experiment.


The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On is available to stream on Netflix.

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Edited by Mudeet Arora