"Pack yo stuff" - 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 7 fans criticize Vanja for chasing Bozo

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90 Day Fiancé: Before 90 Days Season 7 couple Vanja and Bozo | Image source: TLC

During the November 17, 2024 episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Vanja faced multiple revelations about Bozo during a dinner with his friends in Croatia. The episode exposed that Bozo, who claimed to be a semi-professional basketball player, actually plays recreationally and lives with his mother and aunt without current employment. A frustrated viewer on X wrote,

"Im trying to understand why Vanja is still in Croatia. She there chasing after a unemployed man who lives with his mom and aunt. VANJA, pack yo stuff. Head back to Florida. HE AINT IT."

The situation intensified when Bozo called Vanja "just a friend" in front of his companions in this 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days episode, despite her three-week visit to Croatia.

The tension peaked after he suggested she spend time alone instead of meeting his family, leading to Vanja leaving the restaurant in tears. His friends openly questioned his behavior while Vanja, who maintains four successful careers in Florida, confronted him about their lack of physical intimacy during her visit.


90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans tell Vanja to leave Croatia after Bozo calls her 'just friend'

The restaurant scene marked a turning point in Vanja's three-week Croatian visit. When the topic of relationship dynamics came up during dinner, Vanja revealed their complete lack of physical intimacy, including no kisses exchanged.

Bozo's friends appeared visibly shocked by his emotional distance and questioned his behavior. As the conversation progressed, Bozo maintained they should take things slow and suggested Vanja explore Croatia alone instead of meeting his family as planned.

Viewers watching these developments unfold took to X to share their thoughts. One 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fan wrote,

"Vanja's mental gymnastics is exhausting. Girl he don't want you. Go home".

Recent episodes have peeled back layers of previously unknown information about Bozo's life circumstances. While he initially presented himself as a semi-professional basketball player to Vanja, his mother revealed during a conversation that his basketball involvement was purely recreational and provided no income.

This revelation came alongside the disclosure that Bozo currently lives with his mother and aunt, information he hadn't shared with Vanja during their online communications.

Reacting to this living situation, one X user commented,

"The only basketball that Bozo plays in at the community courts, lives with his mom and gives trash plants as gifts. Vanja is head over heels for a short, broke scammer."

Their relationship history revealed complex patterns. The couple initially connected through a dating app during Vanja's brief visit to Split. However, their connection faced an early setback when Bozo ended the relationship to date another local woman, only to later reach out to Vanja for reconciliation after that relationship ended.

Another viewer on X observed this pattern, noting,

"he dumped you to go back to his ex, came back after his ex dumped him. He made you fly to see him just so his midget unemployed pretend basketball player tell you that he's not attracted to you."

During group conversations, Bozo repeatedly referred to Vanja as his friend, creating visible discomfort in his social circle. His friends actively questioned his behavior during the restaurant meeting. They pointed out Vanja had traveled across continents to spend time with him, while he maintained emotional distance. A 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fan on X remarked,

"I'm glad Bozo's friends see that Vanja is a unicorn QUEEN who's too good for him anyway."

The episode revealed deeper communication issues. When Vanja expressed her desire for romance and quality time together, Bozo suggested she should explore Croatian tourist attractions instead. His friends criticized this response, noting that Vanja hadn't traveled to Croatia for sightseeing. Another viewer on X suggested,

The dinner conversation took an unexpected turn when Vanja brought up concerns about Bozo's previous relationship. While Bozo claimed no current contact with his ex-girlfriend, he admitted she ended their six-year relationship due to his immaturity.

When pressed by his friends about his current stance with Vanja, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star defended his position by saying he wanted to be respectful and avoid rushing into anything.

This 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days episode concluded with Bozo suggesting Vanja spend her remaining time in Croatia alone, canceling plans for her to meet his mother and other family members. This suggestion prompted Vanja to leave the restaurant in tears, with Bozo making no attempt to follow her.


The preview for the next 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days episode suggests Vanja considers cutting her Croatian trip short, while Bozo maintains his stance on keeping emotional distance. The show continues to air every Sunday at 8 pm ET on TLC.

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Edited by Apoorva Jujjavarapu