Sami Sheen, the daughter of former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Denise Richards, revealed her strained relationship with her stepfather, Aaron Phypers, in an honest admission that has caught fans’ attention. When questioned if she loved her stepdad in an April 2025 appearance on "Casual Chaos with Gia Giudice," the 21-year-old didn't hold back.
"I mean, we're not even that close, so it's hard to… Like, like we don't ever hang out, we never talk," Sheen replied.
Elaborating:
"So yeah, I feel like that's a stretch. But if he makes her happy..."
In addition to her tense relationship with her father, Charlie Sheen, whom she hasn't spoken to in almost a year, her disclosure is part of a larger conversation about her complex family dynamics.
Denise Richards has previously called Phypers "amazing" with her girls, which contrasts sharply with Sami's attitude toward the guy who wed her mother in 2018 and who fans most recently saw on Bravo's Denise Richards & Her Wild Things.
Denise Richards’ daughter Sami Sheen’s complicated family dynamics explored
The eldest daughter of Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen didn't hold back when discussing the reality of her blended family situation. While acknowledging that Phypers supports her mother's ventures, including her controversial OnlyFans content, Sami made it clear their relationship remains largely nonexistent.
"He helps her with all her content, so he's very sweet," she acknowledged during the podcast, showing that, despite their lack of connection, she recognizes his support of her mother.
The family shown on Denise Richards & Her Wild Things, where viewers may have expected greater peace behind the scenes, is confounded by this revelation.
The juxtaposition between Denise Richards' public remarks regarding Phypers' importance in their family and Sami's estranged connection with her stepfather is what makes it so fascinating. Richards gushed about her husband's paternal instincts during an appearance on "The Talk," in 2019.
"He's amazing as a daddy. He's amazing with my daughters, and he's adopting my youngest, so it's really great," Richards had said, referring to Phypers legally adopting her daughter Eloise that same year.
Phypers himself had expressed warm sentiments about the adoption, telling People magazine:
"It wasn't even a decision. It just is. She's a sweetheart. I love her. I think of her as my own."
Yet Sami's comments suggest that this familial warmth hasn't extended equally to all of Richards' children.
While Sami's relationship with her stepfather remains distant but civil, her connection with her biological father has deteriorated completely. She revealed that a nose surgery last year became the breaking point in their already strained relationship.
"I really got frustrated because it was when I got my nose surgery. I was really mad that he couldn't even like call me or anything to see if I made it out of surgery," Sami explained, adding that while the procedure wasn't "life or death," she expected basic parental support.
The situation escalated quickly.
"I've had him blocked for a minute now," she said.
Explaining:
"I had to block his email as well, and then he actually got a new number on Christmas to text me other crazy stuff where I had to block that number."
Sisters take different paths
Adding another layer to the family complexity is how differently Sami and her 19-year-old sister Lola relate to their father. While Sami has cut contact, Lola has forged a closer bond with Charlie.
"Him and Lola are really close and he always goes over to hers," Sami noted, adding that her sister encourages reconciliation without understanding the full situation.
Lola confirmed this strengthened father-daughter relationship on a recent episode of Denise Richards & Her Wild Things, sharing:
"My relationship with my dad has definitely improved. We started getting pedicures together every two or three weeks and that's our favorite thing to do together."
At the age of 21, Sami seems to be establishing limits and negotiating the turbulent seas of familial connections according to her own standards. Her candor regarding the complexities of her family, especially her relationship with her stepfather, offers a window into the meticulously manicured façade of reality TV.
Although fans of Denise Richards and Real Housewives may have pictured one such blended family, Sami's disclosures serve as a reminder that, despite having cameras on them, famous families deal with the same complex dynamics as the general public.
As she carves her own path forward, Sami seems determined to maintain the boundaries she believes necessary for her well-being, regardless of family fame or public perception.
You can watch Denise Richards & Her Wild Things Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo, with episodes available to stream the next day on Peacock.