"So toxic and so unhealthy"— The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On star Sandy chimes in on her relationship with Nick

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On
The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On Couple Nick and Sandy | Image Source: Instagram/ @ ultimatumnetflix

Netflix's The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On Episode 8 featured Nick and Sandy discussing their relationship. The episode aired recently as a part of the second batch episode release on December 11, 2024.

The couple, among whom Nick issues an ultimatum, talked about how Nick's actions have hurt Sandy.

"You're saying all the right things, but then you try and test me to see what I'll stick around for. That's so toxic and so unhealthy to put somebody that you love so much through. That's not a healthy, respectful, secure place to be in a relationship."

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On: Sandy and Nick discuss their relationship and more

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On Episode 8 starts with Sandy, 27, and her partner Nick, 39. He asked Sandy if she was "Okay," to which she said yes. When she asked the same question, Nick mentioned that he felt bad. Hearing such from her partner, Sandy said she was also feeling bad.

"I love you. Sorry that I...I don't know what the reaction in me, like...I don't know," said Nick.

In response, Sandy mentioned that love doesn't "fix" everything:

"I know that you think it does, but it's like you can't do something... that's, you know, hurtful and say, "I love you." It's like...There's more to it than just...love. You have to also, like, truly respect...the other person. "

Sandy continued and shared that she was "really f*****up" through everything. She mentioned that she didn't know what to say. The female cast member of The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On expressed that many "different things" were happening in her head.

Sandy shared more about how Nick lost his calm after learning about Sandy and J.R.'s intimacy. She mentioned that if she had been in Nick's position, then she would have "kept it together:"

"It's like, you brought me in here, in a hard place in our relationship. I swear, you were begging me to break up with you, basically, based on your actions. Then we get here, and it's like, "You're my world, I'd move Heaven and Earth for you, I love you, I want to marry you."

The couple continued their discussion about their relationship and more.

In response, Nick mentioned that whatever things about Nick made Sandy feel "frustrated" were valid. He added that he didn't like "a lot" about himself. He showed willingness for "a lot of work to be done" on himself.

Sandy said she knew Nick had no "bad" intentions and continued their conversation about their relationship.


Viewers can now stream The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On on Netflix.

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Edited by Sarah Nazamuddin Harniswala