"He will create chaos": 90 Day Fiancé star Shekinah expresses her concerns about Sarper's behavior when things are against him

The third episode of 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 was released on March 2, 2025, on TLC. One of the couples featured on the show is Shekinah and Sarper. They are one of the returning couples on the reality show. While Shekinah lives in Los Angeles, Sarper is from Istanbul, Turkey.

90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 3 featured Sarper's family members, him and Shekinah, meeting. While he went in the pool, Shekinah had a conversation with Sharper's cousin, Fusun, about his nature and what would happen when they would fight.

During their conversation, Shekinah expressed her concerns and confessed to the cameras:

"In my experience with Sarper, he does not handle not being in control very well and he will create chaos for us if he feels like things aren't going his way or that he's not in the driver's seat. So, I'm just worried that him feeling out of control in the U.S. could cause him to just sabotage what we have."

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90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 3: Sarper's cousin opens up to Shekinah about his behavior and how he operates

Third episode of 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 featured a conversation between Shekinah and Sarper's cousin, Fusun. It happened when Sarper went in to pool, while they were alone.

As Sarper went for a swim, 90 Day Fiancé star Shekinah sat by the pool with his cousin, Fusun. While chatting, they enjoyed the drinks. When Fusun asked Shekinah, how she felt, she replied:

"I feel relieved, really happy,I feel a little bit, like, sad too and guilty and bad about taking him away from you guys."

Listening to that, Fusun replied that he was the only and, and that she was also the "only one" in their small family. That was the reason why their parents felt "sad" that he was leaving.

Seeing her concerns, Shekinah hoped that they don't "resent" her for that.

"We have our own doubts. That's it. For us, it's really...We don't feel okay for him to be there alone, obviously. Like, you know, you fight, right, when you are here and you left the house a couple times," shared Fusun.

Agreeing to that, 90 Day Fiancé star Shekinah said that she was worried about having a "bad fight" with Sarper. She mentioned a possibility when she would tell him to "get out" of her place. Fusun asked, if such happened, where would he go.

Shekinah mentioned that there were many of her friends whom he could call. Surprised to hear that, Fusun asked if they would "open their houses" for Sarper. When Shekinah said yes, Sarper's sister seemed even more surprised as she told Shekinah:

"Oh, my God, you know him. At all. No, He will never do that."

Fusun then confessed to the cameras that she was alarmed after learning that Shekinah's friends would open their doors for Sarper. She stated that it was "weird" because:

"He doesn't have to go somewhere else, because right now the house will be theirs. But I think she's (Shekinah) still feeling that he will visit her home rather than they're going to live in the same house together."

Further in their discussion, Fusun told the 90 Day Fiancé star that she didn't want to "scare" her. She then asked if Shekinah was "really ready" to handle a side of Sarper that opens up when he feels he's not in "control." The female cast member agreed and said that he doesn't handle being out of "control" very well.

Seeing them engaged in a conversation, when Sarper came out of the pool, asked what they were talking about. Shekinah and Fusun replied that that was for the "girls" to know and that it was a "girl talk."

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TLC is now streaming 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 3.