Do Rafe and Sofia get together in Outer Banks? Exploring what happens between them in the Netflix series

Rafe and Sofia indeed start dating in the Outer Banks series (Image via Netflix)
Rafe and Sofia indeed start dating in the Outer Banks series (Image via Netflix)

In Outer Banks Season 4, the plot of the show is given a twist as it revolves around the connection shared by Rafe Cameron and Sofia. Even though their romance develops slowly, Rafe and Sofia do eventually begin a romance, which represents a major step for Rafe in his character development.

His relationship with Sofia only opens up a softer, more complex part of him: the fans have long been enthralled by the tumultuous Rafe. Although Sofia is a new addition in season 3, the relationship becomes one of the integral parts of the overall Kook-Pogue drama that has developed throughout the entire series.

The development of the relationship that Sofia has with Rafe is more than just a romantic storyline: it's also used as a means for him to work through battles, such as when he can expected emotional support from Sofia in some of the darker moments. So, let's take a look at their journey in the Outer Banks series.


How did Rafe and Sofia's romance begin?

Drew Starkey as Rafe in an episode titled Tapping the Rudder (Image via Netflix)
Drew Starkey as Rafe in an episode titled Tapping the Rudder (Image via Netflix)

Outer Banks Season 3 sees Rafe and Sofia when bartender Sofia at the Pelican Yacht Club runs into Rafe on the evening of his selling the Cross of Santo Domingo. After spending a couple of nights making eye contact with each other, the connection deepens when Sofia spends the night at Tannyhill, the family estate belonging to Rafe.

Sofia is from a poor background and bartends for a living, whereas Rafe hails from the wealthy Kook elite, again to parallel the themes of the show regarding the relative lowliness of Kooks compared with Pogues. Not long after the start of their romantic relationship, it becomes something much bigger than an affair.

After Sofia hears all of Rafe's negative doubts and frustrations, she gives him what he needs, and that is some good advice:

“The trick is to do the thing that you’ll regret the least.”

Revealing the emotional support Sofia provides and showing she can look through Rafe's macho posturing, is a pivotal moment. He even starts thinking about not killing his father after Sofia's counsel, according to Netflix Tudum, indicating that her influence on him may run deeper than mere physical attraction.

Austin North, Deion Smith, and Drew Starkey in Outer Banks (Image via Netflix)
Austin North, Deion Smith, and Drew Starkey in Outer Banks (Image via Netflix)

Through the series, especially Outer Banks Season 4, this bond continues to grow and solidify Sofia's place in his life as much more than a love interest. Sofia's presence serves as a form of moral compass for Rafe, pushing him to re-evaluate his direction with his decisions and actions.

On the other hand, the complexities of their relationship spell out Rafe's inner turmoil; there is a violent streak in him but fights against this with the hope to change for someone he cares about.

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How Rafe and Sofia's relationship evolves in Outer Banks

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By the end of Outer Banks Season 3, while Rafe and Sofia's relationship has just started, it is quite apparent that Sofia provides for him with a sense of grounding. Unlike charged relationships with the other characters, Sofia opened Rafe up to discuss all of his fears and insecurities.

This plays out well in defining him throughout the development of his character as he goes through moral issues that define his arc in the series. In season 4, their relationship is pushed to the limit as Rafe copes with the legacy of his father and the nefarious activities associated with being a member of the Cameron family.

Although, Sofia is still an anchor influence and provides her take on difficult choices, such as when she tells Rafe,

"You’re not like everyone else.”

Sofia's faith in Rafe, which he fails to do very well at times, forms a big hint that the show allows for redemption arc fans have been rooting for.

Outer Banks draws subtle parallels between Rafe and Sofia's relationship and the dynamic of Sarah Cameron and John B. Both relationships involve a Pogue-Kook connection, but while John B. and Sarah's romance has been central to the larger narrative, Rafe and Sofia's bond is the quieter, more introspective counterpart.

However, their connection continues to raise so many questions about whether Rafe is changeable or if his dark past is going to stick with him forever. Fans are eager to know how their lives go on in season 4 with the hopes of Rafe starting down the redemption path or with chances of falling even further into darkness.

Next: Where was Outer Banks Season 4 shot?


Outer Banks is on Netflix.

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Edited by Sezal Srivastava