"Deluluuu!": 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans criticize Loren's friend Esther for defending him

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days aired Tell All Part 3 on January 26, 2025, on TLC. The latest episode featured cast members joining for various discussions. During the segment, when the host asked Loren about his denial of flirting with others, he said he was "trying to connect."

Listening to Loren explaining what happened, his co-stars, including Joe and Niles, criticized him for his behavior. After witnessing them commenting, Loren's friend Esther criticized the male cast members for calling out Loren.

After fans watched the segment where Loren's friend Esther took his side, it sparked a debate. Some of the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, fans took to social media platform X and shared their views.

A fan wrote on X:

"Loren's friend is deluluuu! #90DayFianceTellAll #90dayfiancebeforethe90days #90DayFiance."

Another fan commented:

"Esther feels that Adnan & Niles are attacking Loren. I mean she isnt wrong. Everyone at this tell all has been attacked by Adnan & not one single person has tried to stop it.#90dayFiance #90dayFianceBeforethe90days #90DayFianceTellAll."

A user wrote about Loren's friend Esther and mentioned:

"Loren's friend Esther out there trying to make us feel bad for him, like he's the real victim, and everyone is just picking on him. Nice try, but we all saw the show. #90DayFianceBeforethe90Days #90DayFianceTellAll."

Another user commented:

"Loren's friend is paddling up a creek with one oar trying to defend him #90DayFianceTellAll #90dayfiancebeforethe90days #90DayFiance."

A netizen wrote about Loren's friend:

"Does anyone care about Loren's random friend that sounds like a crazed stan? #90DayFianceTellAll #90DayFiance."

A person wrote about Loren and his friend:

"I'm gonna need them to NOT bring out Loren's friend Esther again. All the excuses she makes for him make no sense and it's effing annoying. #90DayFianceTellAll #90dayfiancebeforethe90days."

A 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fan criticized Loren's friend:

"Loren's ex/best friend is an enabler get off my damn screen. why are they allowed him to say this disgusting vile things on national tv wtf tlc #90DayFianceTellAll."

Another x user called her out:

"Loren is just thriving on being disgusting and his dumbass friend is just excusing his behavior like as if it's fine and normal. #90dayfiancebeforethe90days #90DayFianceTellAll."

A user criticized Loren and compared her to him:

"Loren's friend is just as gross as him! #90dayfiancebeforethe90days #90DayFianceTellAll #90DayFiance."

One more user shared:

"Loren's little friend (Esther?) is more annoying than he is. All the excuses for a dude she's not even banging…or is she? #90DayFianceTellAll #90DayFiance #90dayfiancebeforethe90days."

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days: Loren's friend Esther takes his side at Tell All Part 3

While everyone shared their views on Loren's flirting with another individual, cast members Joe and Niles called him out.

"That's the definition of stupidity right there. Knowing that something is f*cked up and wrong and yet you know that she's not gonna like that but you did it anyway," said Niles.

Listening to him, Loren's friend, Esther, replied that:

"I mean you just don't like him so, I mean, you're just gonna be like, "Oh, full of s*it and liar and..."

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Niles interrupted her and said:

"Esther let me just stop you right there you're making yourself look worse when you say that. Guess what everyone else here listening to him, we're all saying the same thing."

Esther replied that they were not "listening" to Loren but "attacking" him. While 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Vanja took Loren's side, she also mentioned that she wasn't there, so she wouldn't know what happened.

Further, in Tell All Part 3, the host asked Esther who she thought was "attacking" Loren. She pointed towards Niles, Adnan, and Tigerlily, and Adnan replied that he was "friendly" and "peace."

Listening to that, Esther asked Adnan if he had said anything "nice" about Loren. She added that Adnan "wouldn't even shake his hand." She told Adnan his behavior was "rude."

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Tell All Part 4 is set to release on TLC on February 2, 2025.