"As long as I'm honest" Love is Blind: Sweden's Ola refuses to apologise to Milly for hurtful comments

Viewers saw the dramatic fallout between Ola and Milly in the most recent episodes of Love is Blind: Sweden Season 2 when Ola made remarks against persons who use specific substances. Ola refused to apologize to Milly and maintained his position when questioned about his insensitive comments.

"But I did mean what I said. And I will not apologize for being honest with how I feel," he stated firmly during their heated exchange.

He further doubled down on his stance with the declaration:

"As long as I'm honest, I'm not doing anything wrong," a comment that left Milly visibly upset and frustrated.

The well-known reality dating program Love is Blind: Sweden, which debuted its second season on March 13, tracks a number of single people as they date and become engaged virtually. Couples test their compatibility in the real world by moving in together after getting engaged.

This living situation soon exposed Ola and Milly's basic differences in communication and lifestyle, which finally resulted in their breakup shortly before the engagement party for the season.

What happened between Ola and Milly in this season of Love is Blind: Sweden?

When Love is Blind: Sweden's Ola and Milly moved in together, what had begun as a promising relationship in the pods swiftly fell apart. As they adapted to their temporary residence, their differences grew more pronounced after becoming evident on their honeymoon.

In "Reality Catches Up," the fifth episode of Love is Blind: Sweden, Ola expressed his contentious belief that those who smoke, drink, drink Cola, or eat candy are "insecure on the inside." Milly, who considers herself a consumer of these products, found this comment to be quite offensive.

When Ola saw that Milly was uncomfortable, he didn't back down but instead doubled down:

"I won't be apologizing for that. The only thing I can do is express myself as much as possible from my own standpoint."

By Love is Blind: Sweden episode 6, tensions remained high as Milly brought up the situation again, suggesting that Ola should apologize for his hurtful comments. Instead of smoothing things over, Ola remained steadfast in his position.

"It would have been nice if you apologized to me," Milly said, hoping for some acknowledgment of how his words had affected her.

Ola's response was unwavering:

"But I did mean what I said. And I will not apologize for being honest with how I feel."

He further justified his stance by adding:

"As long as I'm honest, I'm not doing anything wrong."

This exchange highlighted their fundamental differences in communication styles and values, with Ola prioritizing his version of honesty over Milly's feelings.

The aftermath at the engagement party

The ongoing conflicts over their different lifestyles finally reached a breaking point later in the episode. Ola initiated a "check-in" conversation with Milly where he revealed that he had come to a realization: she wasn't the "right person" for him.

Effectively ending their relationship just before they were scheduled to attend an engagement party with the other Love is Blind: Sweden couples, he told a surprised Milly:

"It doesn't feel right for us to continue on the show together"

When asked about attending the party, Milly replied:

"Of course, we should still go. I wanna see the others. I want--I just feel that I don't have much to say to you. I just feel really empty. A bit angry, sad, disappointed. But now, I just want to, like, talk to the girls and just… Yeah. Or I wanna go, anyway."

At the Love is Blind: Sweden engagement party, both Ola and Milly sought support from their fellow contestants. Milly opened up to Alicia, Karin, and Karolina about the breakup, explaining how Ola had issues with her lifestyle.

"And someone who can see beyond my short hair. It's been my looks. It's been my way of life. It's been one thing after another. Towards the end, I said to him that I was just sick of hearing it," Milly confided in her friends.

Meanwhile, Ola told the male contestants that his body was "telling him" to end things with Milly, citing various "signs" that convinced him they weren't compatible.

The split brings to light a recurring theme in the Love is Blind: Sweden experiment: what transpires when the initial bond established in the pods is confronted with the realities of disparate communication styles, attitudes, and lifestyles? The distance between Ola and Milly was too great to close, and Ola's refusal to retract his remarks was the last straw in their relationship.

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Love is Blind: Sweden Season 2 premieres new episodes on March 27, 2025, exclusively on Netflix.