10 most disturbing moments in Dexter that still haunt fans

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Dexter tells a story about a blood spatter expert with a secret that represents the dark side of human nature. Dexter works at the Miami Metro Police Department and has homicidal tendencies. His father, Harry, after recognizing Dexter’s nature, taught him to follow a code. This code dictates Dexter can only kill people who have committed a crime and have escaped justice.

As Dexter leads a double life, his life is strewn with complications that surround him all the time. Dexter struggles to maintain normal relationships because of his past trauma that still haunts him. Though the show has a balance of dark and compelling character development, certain moments have delivered a disturbing intensity that affects the viewers as well.

These moments transcend the visual and tap into the primal fears creating an uncomfortable atmosphere. So in this list let’s delve into the 10 most disturbing moments in Dexter that still haunt fans.

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1) Dexter in the blood-red room

This is one of the most disturbing scenes in the series Dexter when we see him entering a room full of blood. In season 1 episode 10 when Dexter and his colleagues enter the hotel room to investigate they find the room covered in blood by the murderer. The scene is chaotic and depicts the sheer amount of brutality that the murderer had.

This is a powerful moment in the series as we see Dexter who is usually not phased by blood as he is a blood spatter expert himself get affected to the point of almost fainting in the scene. The graphic violence of this scene is immense and provides the viewers with a chilling depiction of the darkness that the show encompasses.

2) Blaming James Doaks

In season 2 Dexter framing James Doakes as the Bay Harbor Butcher is one of the most significant and disturbing moments of the series. Since the beginning, James Doakes has had a vendetta against Dexter. Through various conversations, Doakes has shown his doubts about Dexter. So when his doubts about Dexter came true as he found out the true identity of the Bay Harbour Butcher things took an unexpected turn.

Doakes was one of the few characters in the show whose moral compass was evident. Dexter framing James Doakes acted as a silencer of the voice of reason. It showed Dexer’s meticulous craftsmanship as he exploited James Doakes’ reputation. This was indeed a disturbing moment to see Doakes getting trapped in the net he spread for Dexter. Dexter framing Doakes felt like a line that has been crossed according to the viewers.

3) Rita’s death

Rita has been a significant part of Dexter’s life throughout the series. Her contribution was indeed profound. The scene of Rita’s death in the bathtub in season 4 episode 12 was not just gruesome but also disturbing considering how much Rita meant to Dexter. The emotional impact Rita’s death had on Dexter’s life was devastating. Her death forced Dexter to confront the consequences of his past and understand the dangers he posed to the loved ones in his life.

This moment is a turning point in the show and even among the viewers. Her death leaves a lasting impact on the viewers. Seeing Rita and Dexter’s relationship from the beginning with Dexter’s genuine feelings involved getting suddenly ripped away is emotional. Rita's death not only impacted Dexter but also her children.

4) When Debra finds out about Dexter’s truth

This is yet another significant moment in Dexter in season 7 episode 2 when we see Debra finding out about Dexter’s truth. In this scene, we see Debra asking Dexter about how long he has been doing this. Dexter answers Debra by telling her that he has been doing this since he was 20 years old. Revealing the secret Dexter had with his father.

Although Dexter tries to make Debra understand that he only kills a certain type of people, she finds it hard to understand. The close familial bond Dexter and Debra had shattered and their entire relationship is plunged into uncertainty. The anger, horror, and disbelief Debra feels resonates with the viewers. This scene is disturbing as Debra questions everything she thought she knew about Dexter since growing up with him.

5) Dexter and his brother

In season 1 episode 11 when the true identity of the ice truck killer is revealed, the viewers are in for a surprise. Rudy later revealed that Brian was Dexter’s biological brother. This brings a profound shock among the viewers. Dexter is forced to confront his own past and faces a moral dilemma while maintaining the code that he follows.

This is a disturbing moment as the viewers witness Dexter being forced to kill his own brother. His brother represented the same dark path that he harbors. He challenged the understanding of his own nature and the facade he meticulously built all these years. Brian’s manipulation of Dexter as Dexter understands that he could have become like Brian brings out a disturbing atmosphere.

6) Dexter and Miguel

In season 3 episode 9 Dexter finding out how Miguel has been using him has been one of the most disturbing moments of the series. Dexter considered Miguel as a friend and a fellow dark passenger. However, finding out that he has been manipulated by him violated the fragile trust Dexter had with others.

The duality and deception of this scene resonate with the viewers as Dexter internally lashes out but has to maintain a facade in front of everyone. Miguel’s betrayal reinforces Dexter’s distrust of others and solidifies his belief that he has to rely on himself and no one else. The culmination of their complicated relationship has resonated with the viewers.

7) Debra kills Maria

Maria has been a significant part of the show since the beginning. Her relationship with Doakes and her incessant tries to prove Doakes’ innocence has resonated with the viewers. So when she is finally able to prove that Doakes was not the Bay Harbour butcher her life takes an unexpected turn. As we see Debra shooting Maria in season 7 episode 12 after the emotional turmoil she has been having is disturbing to watch.

Debra is a police officer and as a police officer, she is sworn to uphold the law, but her love for Dexter forces her to take drastic measures. She is plunged into self-doubt and is deeply traumatized after shooting Maria. This scene brings out the dark side of love and loyalty and shows that characters can be driven to do terrible things under extreme circumstances.

8) Dexter’s mother’s death

Yet another disturbing moment of the series is when the viewers witness Dexter’s past. In a flashback scene in season 1 episode 12, we see an infant Dexter witnessing his mother’s brutal murder. Seeing his mother’s death has had a lasting impact on his mind and was a propelling factor behind the way he was.

The scene is raw and unfiltered as we see Dexter getting rescued by Harry Morgan. This trauma shapes his homicidal tendencies. It is also the reason behind his inability to process emotions in a healthy manner. This scene though disturbing produces a sense of empathy for Dexter. The viewers understand the profound trauma he suffered as a child creating a disturbing atmosphere in the series.

9) Debra’s death

There is no doubt that Debra is one of the most crucial parts of Dexter’s life. Their relationship has been a driving factor of the series. Her death in season 8 episode 12 was yet another significant and disturbing moment in the series. The complications of the surgery and the way it was drawn out added to the emotional toll it had on Dexter’s life.

Dexter making the decision to take Debra off life support and saying that he loves her is emotionally taxing. It is a symbol of Dexter’s destructive nature according to the viewers. It was an impactful moment due to the emotional weight and Dexter’s role in it.

10) Frank Lundy’s death

Frank Lundy has been a respected and likable character in Dexter. He had a distinct relationship with Dexter as well. His death in season 4 episode 4 was unexpected and disturbing according to the viewers. His death shattered the illusion that no one was truly safe from the darkness that surrounds Dexter.

Debra’s connection with Lundy deepens the trauma of his death. It was also a contributing factor to the downward spiral of Debra in the later episodes. Though Dexter was not directly impacted by his death, Lundy’s death has added to his guilt and sense of responsibility.

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