What did Sabrina Carpenter say to 16-year-old fan? 2023's resurfaced concert video sparks debate

A recently resurfaced concert video featuring Sabrina Carpenter is creating controversy in social media circles. In the video, the pop star is seen talking to a 16-year-old fan while performing live during a 2023 concert.

The clip resurfaced recently, and has drawn mixed reactions, with some calling out her language and others rushing to her defense. In the video Sabrina Carpenter can be seen conversing with an audience member who said she was 16.

Starting off with relationship advice, the singer told the fan she had all the time in the world. At one point, Carpenter asked:

"How are you feeling? Would you say you're feeling quite sad? Would you say you're feeling angry? Or would you say you are, h*rny?"

Almost immediately realizing her mistake, Sabrina Carpenter hastily reacted stating that she shouldn't have said that. She then attempted to reword her question:

"Wait, I shouldn't have asked you that. You're underage. Oh my god, oh my god. Are you just, like, excited to meet other people?"

The resurfaced clip led to an intense debate online. According to Distractify, some social media users criticized the comment as inappropriate, saying celebrities should be more careful about what they say around their young fans. Others noted that Carpenter had quickly corrected herself, indicating that it was an innocent slip and not a purposeful statement.

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A look into Sabrina Carpenter’s early career in Disney and her transition to a pop star

Sabrina Carpenter successfully went from being a Disney Channel star to a worldwide pop icon at a very young age. Despite being just 24, she has gained immense fan following thanks to her successful music albums.

Carpenter started her acting career when she was 11 years old. She has appeared in shows like Law & Order, Austin & Ally, and Girl Meets World.

She made her musical debut in 2015 with the album, Eyes Wide Open. Her 2016 album EVOLution was a turning point. The album was a mix of R&B, pop and indie rock.

According to Medium, tracks like Thumbs and On Purpose brought her fame. On Singular (2018), she dabbled in synth sounds and more introspective lyrics, but Emails i can’t send (2022) was where she solidified her stature as a talented artist.

Sabrina Carpenter has gained massive success in the music industry. She is a two-time Grammy Award winner — Best Pop Vocal Album for Short n' Sweet at the 67th Annual Grammy Awards, and Best Pop Solo Performance for her single Espresso.

Carpenter won Pop Artist of the Year at the 2025 iHeartRadio Music Awards. She was also awarded the Global Success Award at the 2025 BRIT Awards, showcasing her international reach.