Heather Graham dating history explored as actress gets candid about never having kids

The Killing Me Softly star, Heather Graham, recently opened up about not having children. The 55-year-old actress gets into a candid conversation about never having kids and also claims she does not regret the decision. Graham, who began her acting career in the '80s, made her Hollywood debut with Greg Beeman's 1988 teen comedy flick License to Drive.

The Boogie Night actress, Heather Graham, who has been in a romantic relationship with professional snowboarder John de Neufville since 2022, has a long dating history. Graham has had relationships and was linked to a bunch of high-profile Hollywood personalities over the years. Some of the names on her dating list include A-listers like Russell Crowe and Leonardo DiCaprio.

Despite not wanting to have kids of her own, Heather is fine with the fact that her current partner, John, shares a son, who is 10, with her ex, Alison Wise. According to Independent, during an interview with The Guardian, the Drugstore Cowboy actress said:

"I think I’ve had moments where I wondered: what would it have been like if I had a kid? I guess I would say 80 per cent of the time I feel glad I don’t have kids, and I feel free and really good about it, and maybe 20 per cent of the time I wonder what would it be like. You just have to appreciate the life you have."

Besides being an actress, Graham is also a writer and a director. She has written and directed films such as Half Magic, which was her directorial debut, and Chosen Family, which was released in 2024.

Heather, who has advocated for Children International (a nonprofit humanitarian organization) and showed her support for Global Cool in 2007, which was a climate change campaign, during the interview with The Guardian, admitted that she commends women who go against societal norms and general expectations to have kids. The actress/director added:

"I do think it’s awesome now that more women are expressing their desire to not have kids. The culture says: ‘You need to have kids.’ But why? If you’re not being a people pleaser, what do you really want?"

Let's explore Heather Graham's dating history

As we mentioned earlier, the From Hell actress, Heather Graham, who is currently in a relationship with John de Neufville, has previously dated several renowned actors, including Leonardo DiCaprio and Russell Crowe, and other high-profile Hollywood personalities. We have created a list that explores the actresses' dating history. Check out the list below:

Corey Feldman

Actor Corey Feldman and Heather Graham shared a short romantic relationship in the late '80s. They met at a Hollywood party.

Scott Speedman

Graham was in a relationship for a short period with Canadian actor Scott Speedman in 2007.

Kyle MacLachlan

Heather met MacLachlan during the production of David Lynch's cult-classic TV series Twin Peaks. They were together for two years.

James Woods

Graham's relationship with Woods lasted for a year. They met in 1992 during the filming of Diggstown.

Adam Ant

Besides dating actors, Heather also dated musicians like Adam Ant. They were in a brief relationship in the early '90s.

Jon Favreau

Heather Graham dated actor/director Jon Favreau in 1994. It was a low-key relationship that lasted for a short time.

Elias Koteas

Heather was in a brief romantic relationship with the Canadian actor, Elias Koteas, in the early 1990s. They parted ways after a short period.

Stephen Hopkins

Director Stephen Hopkins came across Heather Graham in 1991. At the time, he was married. They shared a relationship after Hopkins' divorce in 1993.

Edward Burns

Edward and Heather met at a film festival and began dating in 1998. The relationship ended after a couple of years.

Heath Ledger

The late actor Heath Ledger and Heather Graham came across each other at a party that was thrown by studio mogul Harvey Weinstein. They began dating in 2000.

Mathew Perry

Graham was introduced to the FRIENDS star, Matthew Perry, at a Hollywood event. They started dating in 2003.

Tommy Alastra

Heather Graham was in a three-year relationship with Tommy. They met in 2008 at a party in Los Angeles.