20 romantic movies that will absolutely break your heart

The Notebook (2004) | Image Source: New Line Cinema
The Notebook (2004) | Image via New Line Cinema

Romantic films have an emotional effect in many ways. Some films have a heartwarming impact while others devastate. There are films that tug at our heartstrings in ways we least expect, rendering notions of loss and sacrifice, even confusion in relationships, to the fantasies of love. From tragic endings to stories of failed romance that outlive time and circumstances, here are 20 films guaranteed to break your heart and leave a lingering sentimental mark long after the credits roll.

1. Remember Me (2010)

Remember Me (2010) | Image via Summit Entertainment
Remember Me (2010) | Image via Summit Entertainment

Remember Me explores poignant love and loss. In the film, the young protagonist Tyler is dealing with his brother's death and a problematic relationship with his father, when he gets a chance to heal after falling in love with Ally. However, their romance has a heartbreaking twist in store, after a shattering realization. Remember Me stays with the audience, particularly due to its shock ending, which is heartbreaking for anyone who believes that love can usher hope in the time of tragedy.

2. Blue Valentine (2010)

Blue Valentine (2010) | Image via The Weinstein Company
Blue Valentine (2010) | Image via The Weinstein Company

Blue Valentine is a raw and gritty portrayal of how a relationship goes awry. The narrative moves in time cycles to depict Dean and Cindy's romance, which culminates in a bitter reality about their troubled marriage after a passionate start. Dual narrative has been used, which underlines the love's beauty and its vulnerability. The emotional breakdown is devastating, as it underlines the fact that sometimes love isn't enough for two people to stay together. The honesty and unflinching nature of Blue Valentine make it one of the most emotionally exhausting love stories to watch.

3. Monster’s Ball (2001)

Monster's Ball (2001) | Image Source: Lionsgate Films
Monster's Ball (2001) | Image via Lionsgate Films

In Monster's Ball, there is emotional devastation due to grief and redemption. In this movie, the love story of Leticia, who has lost her son recently, and Hank, a man tortured by his past actions, creates an unlikely connection between the two. However, the relationship is marked by raw pain, guilt, and societal barriers. The brutal honesty with which the film portrays emotional vulnerability makes its tragic culmination even harder to bear, offering profound insight into the limits of love and how it's, at times, a form of painful survival.

4. The Vow (2012)

The Vow (2012) | Image via Sony Pictures
The Vow (2012) | Image via Sony Pictures

The love story, starring Rachel McAdams and Channing Tatum, is inspired by real-life events. The actors play a couple whose love is put to the test when, after a car accident, the wife forgets her past relationship with her husband. As he tries to win her love all over again, the premise offers scope for romance, while the themes of identity and unconditional love give the film an emotional heft. Tatum as a man desperately trying to reconnect with his wife's heart leads to a poignant ending.

5. Amour (2012)

Amour (2012) | Image via Sony Pictures Classics
Amour (2012) | Image via Sony Pictures Classics

World Cinema maestro Michael Haneke's film is a devastatingly beautiful exploration of ageing, illness, and unconditional love. An elderly couple, Georges and Anne, face their saddest test when Anne undergoes a debilitating stroke. As Georges cares for her, their love is tested in the most painful ways. The film takes a raw look at how death is inevitable and also the beauty of love persisting through suffering without melodrama. Its senstive exploration ranks Amour among the most intense emotional films about love and loss ever.

6. The Fault in Our Stars (2014)

The Fault in Our Stars (2014) | Image via 20th Century Fox
The Fault in Our Stars (2014) | Image via 20th Century Fox

Terminally ill teenagers Hazel and Gus fall in love after meeting at a support group for cancer patients. Their relationship was beautiful yet tragic. The tender, transitory nature of young love is captured effectively in the film against a deep background of emotional pain and physical agony. The film's raw honesty concerning life and death, coupled with the unforgettable final moments, ensures that The Fault in Our Stars will break hearts.

7. The Best of Me (2014)

The Best of Me (2014) | Image via Relativity Media
The Best of Me (2014) | Image via Relativity Media

Dawson and Amanda's reunion after separation of years reignites the passion they shared in the past. However, their lives are different now, which affects their second shot at love and happiness. An agonizing past hounds them, too. Based on Nicholas Sparks' novel, the film entails discussions concerning fate, lost love, and missed opportunities. As the characters fight their inner demons, the tragic ending of the film reminds viewers that not all love stories are fated to have a happy ending, even if we want them to.

8. Me Before You (2016)

Me Before You (2016) | Image via New Line Cinema
Me Before You (2016) | Image via New Line Cinema

Me Before You explores the unlikely love story of Louisa Clark, a lively woman with zest for life, and Will Traynor, a man who became cynical and withdrawn following an accident that changed the course of his life. Determined to bring happiness into Will's days, Louisa gradually develops a deep emotional connection with him. However, things soon take a turn for the worse following a shocking decision that Will takes. He decides to kill himself through assisted suicide because he believes Louisa cannot get a better life with a man like him.

9. Adrift (2018)

Adrift (2018) | Image via STX Entertainment
Adrift (2018) | Image via STX Entertainment

Based on a true story, the film is about a couple, Tami and Richard, stranded in the middle of the Pacific after a hurricane and in a broken boat. When Richard is thrown off the boat after the storm, Tami must not just deal with the heartbreak of losing her partner, but also find a way to survive and reach the shore. Every moment hurts as the tear-jerker survival drama unfolds a tale of love, resilience, and unrelenting force of nature.

10. Irreplaceable You (2018)

Irreplaceable You (2018) | Image via Netflix
Irreplaceable You (2018) | Image via Netflix

Irreplaceable You is the story of Abbie, a woman diagnosed with terminal cancer. As she prepares her fiancé Sam to deal with the heartbreaking reality of having to live without her, the film focuses on the fragile nature of love and the agony of leaving behind someone you love. As Abbie sets out to find an ideal partner for Sam, the emotional narrative gets a dash of humor, too, but without losing touch with the film's inherent text of love and loss.

11. A Star Is Born (2018)

A Star Is Born (2018) | Image via Warner Bros. Pictures
A Star Is Born (2018) | Image via Warner Bros. Pictures

A Star Is Born follows the potent romance between seasoned musician Jackson and the aspiring singer Ally. Ally's career soars to new heights, even as Jackson battles addiction and insecurities, which cast a dark shadow on their relationship. The fragility of fame, mental health issues, and love result in a tragic and unforgettable ending. The raw emotion in the climax of A Star Is Born, which blends love, sacrifice, and despair, will always stay in the hearts of the film's audience.

12. If Beale Street Could Talk (2018)

If Beale Street Could Talk (2018) | Image via Annapurna Pictures
If Beale Street Could Talk (2018) | Image via Annapurna Pictures

Barry Jenkins' If Beale Street Could Talk is based on James Baldwin's 1974 novel of the same name. The film is a tragic love story centered on youth, and is set against a backdrop of racial injustice. When Fonny is wrongly incarcerated for a crime he didn't commit, the bond between him and Tish is put to test. The tragic portrayal of their plight in the film highlights systemic oppression. Fonny and Tish share a pure relationship but the world keeps coming in the way of their love. If Beale Street Could Talk is one of those stories where love suffers loss at the hands of racism, which makes the film emotional and timely.

13. Five Feet Apart (2019)

Five Feet Apart (2019) | Image via CBS Films
Five Feet Apart (2019) | Image via CBS Films

Five Feet Apart traces the romance between two young adults who have cystic fibrosis and end up in a forbidden relationship, for the illness demands they maintain a distance of around six feet. The film tries to present the emotional struggle that the two youngsters face in such a situation, with the reality in the back of their minds that their love may be shortlived. In the end, Five Feet Apart highlights how fragile love and life can be, and how longing and sacrifice often become inevitable in certain relationships.

14. All the Bright Places (2020)

All the Bright Places (2020) | Image via Netflix
All the Bright Places (2020) | Image via Netflix

The story revolves around two teenagers struggling with their internal demons. Violet Markey and Theodore Finch find companionship in each other, and the strength to fight against their problems. Their relationship grows as they steer complicated lives, mental health issues, and traumas, and they find hope and understanding in each other, in the process. However, Finch's life is not fated to have a happy end due to his battle against depression. A devastating ending is in store for the two, with the film underlining the realities of mental illness and how such a condition could cloud the brightest of bonds.

15. The Spectacular Now (2013)

The Spectacular Now (2013) | Image via A24
The Spectacular Now (2013) | Image via A24

The Spectacular Now is a coming-of-age story that takes the viewer through the lives of Sutter, a high school senior, and Aimee, a shy and bookish girl who enters his life unexpectedly. As the two develop bond, the film shows the intricacies of Sutter's self-destructive behavior. The film portrays love and identity where, at times, the people we love the most cannot provide for us the stability we seek. The Spectacular Now ends on a bittersweet note, balancing the pain of lost potential with the inevitable passage of time.

16. The Notebook (2004)

The Notebook (2004) | Image via New Line Cinema
The Notebook (2004) | Image via New Line Cinema

Nick Cassavetes' film is an unforgettable love story based on Nicholas Sparks' 1996 novel of the same name. The film describes the passionate romance of Noah and Allie. It tells of love torn apart by class lines and parental interference over several years. The film's tragic beauty is its projection of love transcending time. It is a beautiful romance disturbed in its last act by illness. With iconic moments in the film and an emotional ending, The Notebook remains one of the most heartbreaking films about the persistence in love despite obstacles that life throws.

17. Titanic (1997)

Titanic (1997) | Image via Paramount Pictures
Titanic (1997) | Image via Paramount Pictures

James Cameron's multiple Oscar-winning box office epic, Titanic, narrates a fictional saga of romance between Jack (Leonardo DiCaprio) and Rose (Kate Winslet), who meet during the ill-fated voyage aboard the RMS Titanic. Their brief, passionate love story could have survived their class divide but was tragically cut short with the ship sinking after it struck an iceberg. One of the last great romantic tragedies that Hollywood has made, the film culminates with Jack's ultimate sacrifice to ensure that Rose survives on the fateful night when the ship goes down. James Horner's unforgettable score made the film's climax all the more memorable.

18. Past Lives (2023)

Past Lives (2023) | Image via A24
Past Lives (2023) | Image via A24

Past Lives is the story of Nora and Hae Sung, childhood friends reacquainted years after Nora has gotten married. Their relationship explores lingering emotions for past love. The subtle ache of an unfulfilled relationship, bound by time and circumstance, renders the film an extremely moving and reflective narration. Deep and reverberating, the story moves quietly into melancholy tones, exploring "what might have been," adding an element of bittersweet nostalgia to the drama.

19. Romeo + Juliet (1996)

Romeo + Juliet (1996) | Image via 20th Century Fox
Romeo + Juliet (1996) | Image via 20th Century Fox

Baz Luhrmann's Romeo + Juliet is a modern retelling of Shakespeare's classic tragedy. The film features Leonardo DiCaprio and Claire Danes as the star-crossed titular lovers. Set in vibrant, chaotic Verona Beach, the film retains the original dialogue yet puts it in a framework appropriate for the 1990s. The tragic deaths of Romeo and Juliet, who belong to feuding familiies, echo far more forcefully in this rapid-fire, visually astounding rendition. The film's emotional punch is undeniable as it captures the intensity and the inevitability of youthful passion, while depicting one of the most tragic endings ever told.

20) Seven Pounds (2008)

Seven Pounds (2008) | Image via Columbia Pictures
Seven Pounds (2008) | Image via Columbia Pictures

Seven Pounds portrays the poignant story of Ben Thomas, who seeks redemption for a tragic accident that resulted in the deaths of seven people. As he quietly enters the lives of seven individuals to improve them as redemption, he forms an unexpected bond with Emily, a woman who needs a heart transplant. There is a plot twist with Ben deciding to donate his organs to many of the people he has saved, including Emily. Thus, his sacrifice, anchored in guilt and love, leaves the viewers questioning more about redemption and what the price of atonement can be.

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Edited by Vinayak Chakravorty