19 Reasons that make Phil Dunphy the warmest family guy

Modern Family is one of the most loved and popular American sitcoms, due to its wholesome characters and their perfect execution by the actors playing those roles. Ty Burrell plays the role of Phil Dunphy in this show. Phil is the epitome of a quintessential family guy. He is a caring husband, a loving father, and a faithful friend. There are many reasons which make him such an endearing character. Here is a list of 19 reasons that make Phil Dunphy the warmest family guy.

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1) His Unwavering Love for Claire

Phil endlessly admires his wife, Claire. Whether she is stressed or annoyed, Phil always adores her. Every Valentine's Day, he finds ways to surprise her with gifts and planned dates. His support for her is unshakeable, whether she's starting a new job or running for election of Mayor. He is extremely patient and understanding towards her and knows how to cheer her up with his grand gestures. His love for Claire can be truly described as unconditional.

2) His “Cool Dad” Mentality

Phil doesn't want to be a traditional strict dad to whom kids never open up. For this, he has adopted a cool dad mentality. He always brushes up on the trends, trendy slang, and technologies so that he is in sync with his kids. He tries to become more of a friend than a parent and joins them in their hobbies and interests. He is very involved in his kid's social lives and sometimes even embarrasses himself but all of this is just a testimony to the fact of how he genuinely loves being a father.

3) He Always Tries to Bond with His Kids

Over the course of the show, Phil Dunphy has adopted various means to bond with his kids. He tried to connect with Luke by learning magic tricks together. For his daughter Hayley, he tried to be cool and calm about her various relationships, especially with her on-and-off boyfriend – Dylan. For Alex, his smart and intellectual daughter, he has always tried his best to be there for every important moment of her life. He tries to make their everyday moments fun and memorable.

4) He Never Lets Go of His Inner Child

If you are an avid watcher of the show, by now you would know that at heart, Phil is a child. He is obsessed with magic tricks, excited about new gadgets and toys, sometimes rides a scooter, wants an iPad for his birthday and so many other things. He is living proof of the fact that growing older doesn't mean you can't stop having fun. He is always up for a good time at Adventure Park and loves to dance.

5) His Goofy yet Romantic Gestures

Phil has a genuine love and concern for Claire. He always plans some romantic gestures for her, which somehow end up becoming more goofy than romantic. He organized a flash mob for her, uses cheesy, pick-up lines, and always tries to impress Claire, be it with trampoline flips or over-the-top anniversary gifts. He tries to plan these adorable surprises, but they always end up going hilariously wrong. In fact, he is always willing to even embarrass himself, just to showcase his love.

6) His Dedication to Real Estate & Providing for His Family

By profession, Phil is a real estate agent. Despite having various other professional interests, he chose this one only because it helps to provide better for his family. With time, Phil has developed a passion for selling houses and excels in this task. He is always making up some cool real estate advertisements to promote his business, which sometimes turns out to be questionable. He is perfect at balancing work with family and is resilient in achieving what he wants.

7) His Over-the-Top Holiday Spirit

For Phil, a holiday is a very important time. He is obsessed with Halloween and with Claire's help, always turns his house into a haunted mansion. For Christmas, he makes his family wear synchronized sweaters and uses elaborate decorations. Thanksgiving and Fourth of July are also very loved by him. Every Valentine's, he plans elaborate dates for Claire, where they pretend to be some other person to keep the spark alive in their marriage. In fact, Phil has the art of turning simple family events into major celebrations.

8) He Always Sees the Best in People

Phil's personality is brimming with optimism. He generally believes that every person is good and tries to meet them without skepticism. He has unwavering faith that Luke is a genius, he's constantly giving Haley second chances and supports Alex without putting any pressure on her. Even though his father-in-law – Jay, has on occasion been rude towards him, he still tries his best to impress him. Be it friends, his kid's boyfriends, or someone else, he is always trusting towards them and often goes out of his way to help them.

9) His Relationship with Luke

Phil named his son, Luke, just so he could use the famous Star Wars phrase – "Luke, I am your father.” His relationship with his son is hilarious but quiet, and wholesome. He always encourages Luke's creativity, even if it's questioned by others. He believes that Luke is a mini version of him and shares his silliness. He tries to teach him life lessons in unconventional ways like walking on a tightrope across his backyard to teach him about never giving up. They are more of best friends than father and son.

10) His Support for Alex’s Intelligence

For his middle child, Alex, who is an intellectual, smart, and brilliant girl, Phil is always supportive. In fact, because he knows Alex puts so much pressure on herself, he tries to emphasize that she is special and not just smart. He always cheers for her at her every milestone and tries to record these moments on his camera with teary-eyed speeches. He loves to learn from Alex whether it is about space, or about history, and defends her whenever somebody doubts her potential.

11) His Willingness to Embarrass Himself for His Family

Phil is a good sport. When it comes to his family, he can even put aside his own dignity to make them laugh and have a good time. He has no shame in dancing and doing moonwalks just to make his family giggle. His cool dad persona at times, often lands him in embarrassing and ridiculous situations, but he happily embraces it, if it means connecting with his children. He is always organizing some silly activity or adventure to have a good time with his family, no matter how embarrassing it is.

12) His Hilariously Awkward Relationship with Haley’s Boyfriends

His relationship with his elder daughter - Haley’s boyfriend is sometimes so awkward that it gets hilarious. He cannot find a balance and sometimes ends up being too strict or too frank. He tries his best to have manly and bossy conversations with them but ends up totally drifting from the topic. He is overly enthusiastic and always welcomes them warmly to his house. In fact, unlike how it should be, he tries to impress her boyfriends than the other way around. Even after Haley breaks up with them, he finds it hard to let go.

13) He Makes the Best Dad Jokes

Phil is a master of making dad jokes. In fact, he has written a whole book about them called - “Phil-osophy.” He tries to make puns, and that is his signature style of humor. He uses these dark, jokes to bond with his kids, a little more, and actually believes that these jokes are utterly hilarious, unaware of how bad they actually are. One of his famous jokes is – "Act like a parent, talk like a peer. I call it - Peer-renting.”

14) He’s a Hopeless Romantic

By nature, Phil is a hopeless romantic. He always planned some elaborate themes for Valentine's Day surprises and is dedicated to making those themes perfect. He believes that his relationship with Claire is magical and like a fairytale and that Claire is his true soulmate. He often leaves her notes and compliments which are very sweet even after decades of marriage. He tries his best to keep the spark alive and he's completely smitten with his wife.

15) His Inability to Be Mean

Phil is a people pleaser and it is almost impossible for him to be mean to a person. He loves to be the cool guy liked by everyone in the room. Because of this, he is always over-apologizing even when he is not wrong and his attempts at being tough are always passive-aggressive. He hates confrontations and always cracks an awkward joke during them. He is somewhat gullible and can be easily manipulated. He is truly kind and patient and always puts an effort to make people happy.

16) He Encourages His Kids to Follow Their Dreams

Phil is a very good support to his kids. In fact, he sometimes lives vicariously through them. He doesn't want his kids to follow conventional career paths and motivates them to develop hobbies, like supporting Luke in learning magic. He was very excited when his daughter - Hayley, initially showed interest in real estate and tried his best to guide her. He always emphasizes the importance of following one's passions and has blind optimism in the fact that his kids are meant for great things.

17) His Devotion to His Family Traditions

Phil loves following traditions and always has something planned for holidays or vacations. He believes that keeping traditions alive makes a family even stronger. For example, every Halloween, Claire and him have a prank war which sometimes gets very competitive. He gets very upset when a tradition is dismissed, like celebrating Leap Day. Even if these traditions are ridiculous like having a family Christmas card photo, he is very dedicated to them.

18) He’s Always Down for a Prank War

Phil likes to compete in life, especially with his wife. He is very enthusiastic about prank wars and his competitive spirit is uncontrollable during them even if these pranks end in chaos. He believes that he is a master at strategizing and sometimes even spends years planning a prank. He believes that pranks are like art and require intricate and clever planning. In fact, he has even passed down this passion of his to his son Luke, who is also as invested as his father in these pranks.

19) His Affection for His Own Dad

Phil gets his family-oriented behavior from his own father who is also goofy like him. For him, his father is his role model and he always seeks his advice which is sometimes hilarious and silly. They both enjoy magic tricks and dad jokes and always compete with each other regarding their jokes. He is very protective about his father's feelings and just like his relationship with his son Luke, he and his dad are also more of friends, than father and son.